missing my husband poems

He got up in the morning and got dressed and went outside like he normally did every morning to get some air. I am just so lost without him. Everyone says it gets easier. A few days before he passed away, he smiled at us and that was when he had his last stroke and went into a vegetative state. Our daughter was pregnant with our first grandchild and my husband died 2 1/2 months before he was born. He had a stroke and a massive bleed on his brain. Then the cancer came and took my best friend. It all just seems unbelievable that I'll never see him again. Love and miss you, Kevin. I'm not well, and my son cares for the best he can! We met in Europe. I, too, am a quiet person and do not have many friends. He did everything for me. I still miss him more than ever. As most of you have said no one, absolutely no one understands the pain I or any of us feel It's only been 60 days since his life and most of mine ended. I am reading these messages today because we lost a dear friend to cancer, and he has left behind a wife and young son. For this is when I miss you most of all. I lost my husband five months ago. Missing someone is a strange feeling. He died 48 hours later from a PE. I do still feel truly empty, lost, and I can't stop my tears in the public or with my friends. I did CPR until the rescue arrived, screaming his name, begging him not to leave me, but we never got him back. My husband died five years ago at age 58. I begged God to let me go with him. He told me to speak at our children's weddings on his behalf and discussed with the girls who he had organized to walk them down the aisle when the time comes. I am depressed, in shock, and do not want to believe that my love has gone, and it's getting worse and worse. To lose someone I loved brings pain beyond belief. We were over the moon happy to get to find love again. I am devastated also. Everyone says - give it time - I don't want time - I want him. I miss him so dearly. Without a clue, He died suddenly at the age of 53. He was gone with half of my soul. And while I know God will get my through this, my heart still breaks when people only want to say time will heal, when I really just need someone to let me cry. My wife retired at age 55. Many people are missing someone this holiday season. This carries me forward every day until our souls are reunited in heaven and we are returned to each other for all of eternity. My husband of 62 years just passed on February 11, 2019, just 3 weeks ago. I often go and walk along the beach and think of him. I hate those words. My husband Ken and I were out for a drive on March 21, 2017. God bless you. I do not think I am strong enough to accept this and live without him. I cherish her so. She was so healthy all her life. I cared for him for 5 months. He went to sleep that night and never woke up. I'm not sure that it will ever go away, but I cope with distractions. We have three grown children, and a 17 year old who will soon graduate high school. Thanks for your poem! Until then Ill love him every day and remember the moments we shared. The photo of the woman with her hand on her husband's pillow, at the beginning of this page, looks like me every night and morning. Thank you. He is 38. I love her so much. We had a good, solid marriage. It is nearing 11 months and it feels like yesterday that the nightmare began. The devastation I felt is indescribable - a black hole I just couldn't see my way out of. I miss her a lot. Now I have a spiritual relationship with him. Sadly that clock stopped at 38 (this year 2 years after would have been the first big one-the 40 and how much I was always looking forward to that number!). I had never been married, he gave me the self confidence in myself to excel in my profession. Missing you is heartache, that never goes away A thousand words won't bring you back. May 19 will mark the 5 month mark of his death and it is also our secondary anniversary, even though we were only married 2 years we were together for almost 25 yrs. I wish I could afford one and drive it for us. Love you. I'm trying to deal with this minute by minute and second by second. I wish I was the one to have found him so my son could have been spared such pain. He loved me unconditionally, and I feel lost without his presence and love. We had been married 50 years and together 56 years--since we were 15 years old. I still need him! I have to wait on God's will, but my life is empty until I can be with him. Life was good. We have a 33-year-old son and he is everything to me. He did everything for me. We planned and raised 3 boys. Many trips to Iowa City to see the liver doctor. I, too, was there as Joe took his last breath. Hi, my husband passed 02/13/2017, and since then my life will never be the same. My husband was killed in a tragic car accident, 11th December 2006, I was left with 4 young children and a lifetime of sorrow. I'm so angry. Three of our daughters and I cared for him 24/7. I don't know how to do this. We fell in love and were married. Cry not for me. 16 days later my love was gone. The nights are long, the days are short, and I keep praying and hoping it will get better. I lost my amazing, loving husband, John, on January 26, 2018. I lost my reason to live on June 12, 2017 and just flat out do not want to go on without him. He survived but died a year and half later as it opened up again, but before his last operation he gave me a letter to tell me how much he loved me and our children. I have my empty house where I call out her name and ask her, "Where are you? I have been to groups and counseling but nothing eases the pain and loneliness. Death is inevitable, I know. My life hard with out him. People don't know the feeling of losing a husband until it actually happens to them. I thought I'd better get on a site that understands. I lost my 50-year-old husband. I feel like I'm suffocating slowly without him. Nothing mattered to me. July 22, 2016, my birthday, I lost the love of my life, Edwin Gonzalez. We have two children. My dear husband worked as an engineer for 52 years until he turned 70. l told him when he was 64 to stop working. Our families rock. I hope not. They had a son and 2 daughters. I, too, lost my soul mate April 28th 2017 in our home. He lost the battle and he's now resting with the Lord. We have 1 daughter, 29; we have 2 sons, 25 and 30, and a grandbaby born on12/18/2016. Before two days were up my darling was gone. We were finally, after 37 years, free and clear and ready and planning to take on the world of grandparents and travel and just enjoy life after both working 40 years each. He fainted and that was it. I lost my husband 28 weeks ago on his birthday. The most difficult thing for me since your death, is not being able to do things without thinking about you. While he was signing in to see him, he collapsed and died. He made me whole, and for that I am forever grateful. Common Mistakes: the word "i" should be capitalized, "u" is not a word, and "im" is spelled "I'm" or "I am". He caught e-coli and died in my arms. I'm so sad and feel so alone. How much I miss you. I am devastated. My Husband passed away December 19, I cry every night and most days. Maybe if I had gone downstairs sooner. I'm sorry for your loss. I'm reading these because a friend just passed away. To my dear and loving husband. He died at home with me and our youngest daughter at his side. I feel so robbed. And cry those silent tears. He was also a very active person up until that day. I wish I was nicer and sweeter to you because now I know how kind and caring you were to us. For he is not gone . But for whatever reason we had his birthday dinner the night before. I find as the years go on my loneliness increases. This is what happened with my soul mate and me. I miss him so much, and so much is on me. A gift so I would know love. We were in Florida to attend our daughter's wedding. My husband died 17 years ago in a car accident when I was only 29 years old. Tonight I am missing him. My husband of 41 years died the evening of our 41st wedding anniversary. He never got to ride, so I told him be careful, see you later. How painful it was to slowly lose him day by day for years. I miss you when your gone away. My birthday is today and I just feel so lonely without him. Then I thought of our grandchildren that we love so much. Evans was a Victorian novelist. It is hard to put on a brave face all of the time but she understands me. I am a 60-year-old woman, and like you, living alone. She was so looking forward to that. He was dying before my eyes. I actually felt safe in my own skin with him. Do not visit my grave. My husband of 47 years passed away 10 months ago. But I really miss him, and our 14 year old is having such a hard time. It feels like someone came along and just gutted me. He was not my husband - very weak, frail, his emotional state was very bad. It takes my breath away. I will join him someday. I took him to the hospital and brought him home 6 days later to die in our room. Then I'd had enough of seeing him suffer. John. I feel the same as you. He was told he had this on Sept 13, 2016. It feels like he's been gone too long that it's time for him to come back to me. I have changed for I, too, died when she did. I know my Stephen was my everything. I know he would want me to go on living. I miss holding his hand at night and talking to him and watching TV. I lost the love of my life, my soulmate, my best friend, lover, protector, caretaker and father to our two beautiful amazing daughters on February 5, 2019. A perfect way to hold on to special memories of" Mum Poems Sister Quotes Yoga Quotes By nightfall it takes me over. We met when I was 22. We have no child either. We took care her. He passed in his sleep. I don't know how to live, I was 16 when we became inseparable. He was smart, handsome, caring and loved everyone. I am lost without him. Hello Ms. Carter, Your mesmerizing touch. You need some type of spiritual guidance to make it day to day. We were only 17 & 18 respectively when we married. We grew up together and now I have to start out on my own with no desire to be anyone other than his wife. I will keep my husband always in my heart. It was always as I would tell everyone my proudest achievement as we hit another anniversary. He had a stroke in the night. I invited some friends in restaurants for dinner to celebrating his birthday too. The up and down wave of grief hits me every day. Can you go into infinity percent, maybe that would be it? I moved to another city so I can try to change my thinking but it still haunts me. For it desperately seeks. I watched him get sicker and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do was to let him go. 24-hour care every day with Hospice nurses. My love and prayers to you. L Lisa Palmore 31 followers More information Missing my husband Poems Anniversary Poems Grief Poems Grief Quotes Death Quotes Mum Poems Bob Marley Missing My Husband Brother Quotes Grieve all you want. He was only 65 and healthy. I have lost two children in my lifetime as well. My husband too was hit by a driver under the influence on April 9, 2022 and was killed. Sadly missed along life's way, quietly remembered every day. I had to say goodbye to my Jerry on January 14, 2018. Words can't express how much he is missed, not only from my life but from others, too. I was touched by each poem and story. No, I am not happy with God either. I lost my boyfriend when I was 13. The only thing I can tell is I have come to realize that my life is forever changed. This poem is exactly how I feel!!! People say crazy things. Now I dread each day. The only thing that gives me a little comfort is when people reach out to give me a hug or when they are willing to listen to me when I need to talk or cry. I'm not "over it" and doubt I will ever be. Believe it or not, reading those letters, I didn't feel so alone. It's so hard to be without him: his touch, his arms holding me in bed so peaceful, waking in the morning with him. Much love and strength to you all. I cry and don't even realize I am. It's the kind of heartache you can feel in your bones. He stole my heart. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him & imagine what life could be if he was still here. I miss you when your gone away. He looked so scared. Some days I still get wet eyes for no reason, but life does really go on. Waking up to an empty house and knowing that I am alone. My wonderful husband died one month and two days ago. My head is so messed up from all of this. While on our family vacation at the beach on July 9 Barry got out of the ocean and made it to our chairs. He drovealways looking after me. I understand, too well. I go to work, make sure I am there for our children & try to survive against all odds! He told me he was ready and he knew the way, that's when I told him it's ok now you can go. My sweetie died September 4, 2017. Our life together was still so full of promise and dreams of things to come. I miss everything about him. After numerous tests and extras, we were told the pain in his should was the least of his problems - that he was in stage four lung cancer and had less than 2 months to live. I prize thy love more than whole Mines of gold. And life is no longer standing still but purpose is unfolding. He was our center, our life evolved around him. On Christmas this year, he will be gone eight months. I am completely lost without him, but knowing I will be reunited with him when God calls me home to be with him for eternity gives me some solace. He was so disappointed but remained strong. My husband died 3 months ago, April 24, 2018, after a terrible struggle with ALS for 8 years. My prayers are with you and your family. I lost my husband in August 2017, and we have a 14 year old. We had just retired and bought a beautiful home! Our children miss her so much. I am lost and only want to be with her now. I feel guilty even thinking about a sexual relationship with anyone else. {{{hugs}}} to you and your son. door even if it's just for one day. I have lost my life.my future and my love. I tell them all the time that daddy loves them and is keeping an eye on them from heaven. My life is so empty now. I cry my silent tears. He was the love of my life. Take care. He was my best friend, lover and husband. I miss him so much, but I know he would want me to be strong for our children and grandchildren. My love and partner for the last 12 years just passed away on May 16, 2022, at just 31 years old due to complications with end stage renal failure. I wear his wedding ring on a chain. She grew from childhood, losing a lower leg from a farm accident, cancer tumor on vertebrae, paralyzed for over 2 years, cancer of the breast, 25 blood transfusions. He was recuperating. It can meddle with your work, and you may lose focus when you miss their smell, warmth around you, and touch. I am so sorry for your loss. I walk, I talk. Life just sucks. Melanoma took my Elliot away from me and I am angry at the world. We were told on Thursday that it was incurable. I always knew I was so much better with Lou than without him. He is in the rays of light each day, he hears me talk to him, he checks on me . I am a 55-year-old woman from the Windsor area. I felt guilty like I murdered the man who loved me. Still I grope in the dark hoping I'll touch him, still I listen to silence hoping he'll say something. When does this pain go away? He had to have emergency brain surgery and wasn't responding for almost a week. Bless all of you so new in your grief. But to lose your husband and your son my heart breaks for you. I'm strong as I've not been alone mainly because my family wants to make sure I'm ok. Why have babies in cribs then?? And now have 3 grandchildren. We were together for almost 40 years, married 35. I lost my husband one year and two days ago. 13. I wish I could've changed places with him or that God would take my life as well. I don't think I'll ever love anybody like I loved him!!! My husband passed away in 2011 and I am trying my best to do what everybody expects of me. Only you can figure that outno one else. I begin to feel safe. You will go on - as days and nights still continue to come and go. Right now, sad and lonely with nothing to look forward to of years more. It is so hard. All of your words are exactly how I feel. Ty thoughts are with you. Before I met him I thought I wasn't having any more kids, so I had my tubes tide. My husband of 43 years died in April 2018. He was diagnosed in February 2017 and told in January 2018 that all avenues of treatment had been exhausted. Empty, that's my life now, can't talk about him just thinking about him hurts and bring the pain and tears. The saying "If one hadn't loved so deeply one would not grieve" gives me comfort in my grief. Nothing will make it better. We met when I was sixteen and were together our entire adult lives, 32 years. She brings me comfort. He passed away in his sleep from congestive heart failure. It came back normal, but he had chest pains and then they decided to send him to ER. Know why you miss your husband It may sound silly at first glance, but there are many different reasons you may be missing your husband! Thanks for sharing your story & I will keep you all in my thoughts & prayers. I wanted to commit suicide so badly when my husband died. We were devastated and still grieve his loss every day! I sang to him and read from the Bible and administered his pain drops. So we come home and tried to live as normally as possible. He was alert yet odd. I know exactly what each person is saying and feeling in their response to this poem. You are now in a better place. We had the perfect plan. Life's different, and now my support is scarce, life's empty, and I'm alone. The person we made all of our decisions with and the person who shared in the outcome of our days and our lives. I lost my husband 6 years ago on the 31.8.2007. Thank you for letting me share a little bit on the loss of my best friend, my rock, and my love. I came home and found him peacefully asleep, forever. Were you touched by this poem? I am so sorry for all our losses! On Dec.1 2016, I lost my best friend of 34 years. Until now, I'm grieving. I do not have to pretend that I am fine, that I am strong. It's not a day that goes past that I do not think of him. I try to smile and put on a "happy" face for the world. I know I can encourage some women as well. All other content on this website is Copyright 2006-2023 FFP Inc. All rights reserved. You have every right. My husband was to be coming home the day after Thanksgiving. I knew from the moment he introduced himself on our first date, that this was the man I was going to marry. I lost my husband of 23 years 5 months ago - 10/27/18. They did wear any masks. I still cry some days and I miss him. I also hope, seeing your comment posted a year ago, may you today be in a progressed stage of your grief journey. When I read this poem I could really relate and am very sorry that you and your son have to go through this as well. Your words are exactly my feeling right now. I was 40 when Lou and I married. My heart is broken into a million tiny pieces. As he had been fighting a cold for two weeks he agreed. I miss him so much. I can honestly say that things do get better. All I can say is you're not alone. Missing You by Kathy Murphy - Family Friend Poems, Poems For Elementary Students (Grades 3-6), Poems For Primary Elementary Students (Grades K-3). It hurts every day. I took an early retirement as my wife needed me more than anything. My husband passed on November 12, 2017, and your words are my life right now. There are no words to describe this pain. The first was way back in 1982, and yet I still feel that pain and loss as acutely as if it just happened an hour ago! The last year we were together every day. Forever. How. I pray every day I will get through this. I begin to feel as if God gave me this wonderful man to me in reparation of my painful life. I cry almost every day. I miss him so bad. To my immediate right 40 feet away, my husband laid face down not moving his legs crushedhe died instantly. I refused to believe what the doctors were saying. I feel that the more you loved and were loved in return, the worse the grief. 8) Missing my husband Has become my hobby These days he never Spends any time with me I try to kill time While he is at work, busy I want him to know That I miss him terribly 9) I don't just miss you When you are at office I miss you even when I want a sweet kiss I don't just miss you When I have nothing to do Of you I am reminded When I am blue He made me a better me, he was the most amazing person. My family is here now but soon will return to their own homes. He was the only man who ever told me I was beautiful and daily told me I was, "cute times 10!". I still go to bereavement counselling with palliative services every fortnight. I lay here in the dark for hours staring at the ceiling. No one informed us of what happen to him until we found it from our family phone tracker. I'm waiting to see her again. I didn't have my husband, so I would go to him. I miss him so much. He had a heart attack in our driveway. In a month we found out he had stage 4 bladder and bone cancer. We were supposed to go away for the weekend a couple of days after he passed. Your kisses fell sharp on my flesh like dawn-dews from the limb, When I didn't, because you can't, one by one they drifted away. I get to remain in eternal grief. I feel like I was given this huge book and when I picked it, it was full of stories, but now half through the rest of the pages are blank. Featured Shared Story My husband who was a professional boxer developed dementia at age 57 from undetected brain injuries. He was only 54 years old. We were teens, and all of the sudden he decided to go. After a 15 month battle with melanoma, God called my husband home on December 19, 2012. I lost my husband 5 months ago, I am lost without him. He had had a massive heart attack. People that I called my friends don't call, they don't know what to say. Her family all going well into their 70s and 80s while she got screwed at 62 years! I lost my partner, Luke, the night of Jan 26, 2022. He made me a better woman. He was 49. Life will never be the same. As the 23rd creeps closer, I feel myself not being able to be as strong as everyone has seen me be. Then one day he was gone. My world is upside down now. Life was wonderful and safe with him. 2. She was truly the center of the family. They will always be in our memories and in our hearts, but always talk your child about the memories of your late husband. I started CPR and called 911- they tried to shock him several times but were unable to revive him. When you find your soulmate and think you will be together forever, it just feels like a nightmare. I know too well that he's never coming back. They did a CT of the chest and found stage 4 lung cancer. He died of a massive heart attack. It is so final and I have my faith. I wanted to go with him and sometimes still do, just to see him and touch him again. I can't help but get emotional. Now it's November and Thanksgiving was closing in. Motorcycle accident. I think I went crazy for a while because I wanted to find a way to bring him back alive! Three months after my husband passed away, (March 27, 2016) our cocker spaniel passed away as well. I still feel so empty and hope that I will eventually feel like a normal human being again. I, like you, miss hearing his voice. We did it, we did it, we would say. We were happy. My precious husband died March 20, 2018. 16) My stomach churns. I tried to save him to no avail, An aortic aneurysm took his life within minutes. So until I see him again, and I sincerely know I will, because he was a good Christian man, I will drag on. Oh my, you poor dear. This continues to be true. I think they want to make us feel better but don't know what to say. I still expect to wake up and this will all be the worst nightmare I've ever had. Neither of us expected it to go that fast. Best friend for 30 years and married for the last 16. Perfect WhatsApp image to send each other to start a new day by Saying I love you and I .

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